tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7274863436171313162.post3375158156953158295..comments2024-02-05T18:59:44.678-05:00Comments on The Borg Blog: Hot and ColdBorgBloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03373177980133792571noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7274863436171313162.post-26502997023115119842012-06-02T10:47:35.525-04:002012-06-02T10:47:35.525-04:00Y'know, as I finally was sleeping last night, ...Y'know, as I finally was sleeping last night, I realized the best way to promote this particular post was to appeal to those who really wanted to be advice columnists. I'm serious! So it's nice to wake up and look over here and see that someone has at least responded.<br /><br />It's a tough situation for me. I don't have a lot of local friends - that's a big issue I've been trying to work on - and when she runs warm and hot, she and I get along well. It's nice to have someone to hang with... <br /><br />But I certainly see myself, even as she warms up, keeping her at arm's length and not trusting her completely to stay "warm" (for lack of a better description).<br /><br />Thanks for the feedback. Stick around!BorgBloggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03373177980133792571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7274863436171313162.post-9554922926165324492012-06-02T02:36:33.503-04:002012-06-02T02:36:33.503-04:00This is a shitty situation, no doubt about that. I...This is a shitty situation, no doubt about that. I had a very very dear friend that was hot/cold for years and years until I finally cut her loose about 3 years ago. I think the thing that helped me to distance myself from her was having other friends that didn't treat me like that. It blows always having to be the bigger person! You are allowed to walk away. :)May @ So Very Domestichttp://www.soverydomestic.comnoreply@blogger.com